Saturday, November 21, 2009
12 months and still counting.. :)
one year ago, we were happy that we met again.
one year later, on the very same date, we are still happy together. Even though in between there are some quarrels and stuffs, we're still going strong on this relationship. anyway, which couples don't quarrel or fight sometimes right? :)
we went to to have a simple celebration.. to have something yummy..
and we settled down at Suntec City's ...
TONY ROMA'S !!
Happy 1 year anniversary dear. :)
*slurps*
Let you guys see what he had :p
(Remember to prepare some tissue to wipe off those dripping saliva ~ haha!!)
We had Baked Potato Soup!
Rich, creamy and loaded with real baked potatoes and topped with Cheddar chesse, bacon and green onions.. it's only at $6.90 !!
And then.. i had .. the Southwestern Chicken!
Charbroiled marinated chicken breast covered in original BBQ sauce, Monterey Jack cheese, Cheddar cheese, freshly diced tomatoes and green onions. @ $21.90 !!
He ordered .. Steak Combo ~
A thick juicy 200g Ribeye steak with a choice of Fish Fillet @ $30.90 !!
Is that mouth watery enough yet? *giggles*
I'm smiling cos i'm feeling full and satisfied ~
But... here comes the DAMAGE!
Didn't expect to have some Anime Fest going on at the convention hall.. saw a lot of cosplayers walking around so both of us decided to talk a walk and see how they dress up and stuffs.. Well, it's very very crowded and there are alot of characters walking around but due to i am not much of an anime fan, but i do watch only Bleach and Naruto.. so i can only recognise people who dressed up like Bleach or Naruto characters. haha!!
Took some pictures of them, lemme share it with u if u haven't been there yet. :)
DeathNote!!
Some Bleach characters.. they look rather crappy you make them stand beside some very nicely done ones.. sorry but i can't stand it when i saw the bloated version of Kuchiki Byakuya inside..
This Naruto is rather cute, but his hair somehow reminds me of a feather duster. :p
Kurosaki Ichigo - Bleach
Some other random characters..
And i thought this guy is suppose to be appearing in halloween! So what is he doing here in an anime fest when this character is not even an anime???
This is the prettiest lady in red that i've seen there. Love her costume too!
I really didn't expect to bump into my own friends there.. as in them dressed up into other characters. here she is !! (forgot how to spell her name, was it Jermaine, Germaine, or Shermaine? LOL!! Gosh, i'm so sorry.. i've got a bad memory..)
She used to work part time in my ex-company Focal. A cute little girl isn't she? I love her outfit too! :D
Then this is the macho-est man i've seen there.. but i don't know which character he is dressing up as..
Just when i thought his cosplay is not bad, i happen to take a 2nd picture and spotted something rather unglam.. check out those arrows...
(click on picture to have a clearer view..)
YES!!! He didn't put on the tanned color on himself evenly! he missed out his pits ~ *giggles*
one year later, on the very same date, we are still happy together. Even though in between there are some quarrels and stuffs, we're still going strong on this relationship. anyway, which couples don't quarrel or fight sometimes right? :)
we went to to have a simple celebration.. to have something yummy..
and we settled down at Suntec City's ...
TONY ROMA'S !!
Happy 1 year anniversary dear. :)
*slurps*
Let you guys see what he had :p
(Remember to prepare some tissue to wipe off those dripping saliva ~ haha!!)
We had Baked Potato Soup!
Rich, creamy and loaded with real baked potatoes and topped with Cheddar chesse, bacon and green onions.. it's only at $6.90 !!
And then.. i had .. the Southwestern Chicken!
Charbroiled marinated chicken breast covered in original BBQ sauce, Monterey Jack cheese, Cheddar cheese, freshly diced tomatoes and green onions. @ $21.90 !!
He ordered .. Steak Combo ~
A thick juicy 200g Ribeye steak with a choice of Fish Fillet @ $30.90 !!
Is that mouth watery enough yet? *giggles*
I'm smiling cos i'm feeling full and satisfied ~
But... here comes the DAMAGE!
Didn't expect to have some Anime Fest going on at the convention hall.. saw a lot of cosplayers walking around so both of us decided to talk a walk and see how they dress up and stuffs.. Well, it's very very crowded and there are alot of characters walking around but due to i am not much of an anime fan, but i do watch only Bleach and Naruto.. so i can only recognise people who dressed up like Bleach or Naruto characters. haha!!
Took some pictures of them, lemme share it with u if u haven't been there yet. :)
DeathNote!!
Some Bleach characters.. they look rather crappy you make them stand beside some very nicely done ones.. sorry but i can't stand it when i saw the bloated version of Kuchiki Byakuya inside..
This Naruto is rather cute, but his hair somehow reminds me of a feather duster. :p
Kurosaki Ichigo - Bleach
Some other random characters..
And i thought this guy is suppose to be appearing in halloween! So what is he doing here in an anime fest when this character is not even an anime???
This is the prettiest lady in red that i've seen there. Love her costume too!
I really didn't expect to bump into my own friends there.. as in them dressed up into other characters. here she is !! (forgot how to spell her name, was it Jermaine, Germaine, or Shermaine? LOL!! Gosh, i'm so sorry.. i've got a bad memory..)
She used to work part time in my ex-company Focal. A cute little girl isn't she? I love her outfit too! :D
Then this is the macho-est man i've seen there.. but i don't know which character he is dressing up as..
Just when i thought his cosplay is not bad, i happen to take a 2nd picture and spotted something rather unglam.. check out those arrows...
(click on picture to have a clearer view..)
YES!!! He didn't put on the tanned color on himself evenly! he missed out his pits ~ *giggles*
posted by Jocelyn @ 11:59 PM
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Friday, November 20, 2009
我的心。。你听见吗?
这是我第一次使用华语来表达我现在的心情。
不知道为什么，也不知道在什么时候开始。。我就好像变成了一个无魂行走的死尸。
虽然跟他刚刚吵了架，但却好像毫无感觉似的，伤心却哭不出来。我的泪水好像都
已经干了。觉得自己受了许多委屈，但可能应为真的受过太多了所以渐渐也感到麻
木了。
其实我有好多话想说，可是又不知从何说起。
真的很想把所有的埋怨、愤怒、不满、悲伤等等，都把它们在这里一个一个写出来，
然后就很简单地按 KEYBOARD 上面的 DELETE，全部就会从我的记忆里消失。
说得轻松，但世界上哪有这么好的事啊~
有的时候，我会问一问自己活在这世上到底是不是真的在为自己而活。。应为想死
的时候又放不下没工作的母亲，还有未长大的孩子。。到最后一切无法用一个字来
形容的痛苦都往肚子里吞。所以啊。。。偶尔会想要自己。。生个重病而过世。至
少还可以找到借口死。是病死的吗，谁都无法控制的。你说对吗?
有时候我也会想我是不是应该孤独一生，不要再带给人痛苦呢?应为好像跟我在一起
的人都会心碎或是为我而烦。。到最后都会闹得很不开心。
我真的好像是一个罪人。
我的人生一路走来怎么会那么艰苦，那么难熬。
如果时间能够倒转，我会是现在的我吗? 我会遇见他吗? 我会怎样过我的生活呢?
如果时间能够停留，我真的会永远快乐吗?
遇见我，你快乐吗?
或者没认识我的话你会比较快乐?
在我刚提到说泪好像都干了，我却打到这里。。掉泪了。。
这是我第一次使用华语来表达我现在的心情。
不知道为什么，也不知道在什么时候开始。。我就好像变成了一个无魂行走的死尸。
虽然跟他刚刚吵了架，但却好像毫无感觉似的，伤心却哭不出来。我的泪水好像都
已经干了。觉得自己受了许多委屈，但可能应为真的受过太多了所以渐渐也感到麻
木了。
其实我有好多话想说，可是又不知从何说起。
真的很想把所有的埋怨、愤怒、不满、悲伤等等，都把它们在这里一个一个写出来，
然后就很简单地按 KEYBOARD 上面的 DELETE，全部就会从我的记忆里消失。
说得轻松，但世界上哪有这么好的事啊~
有的时候，我会问一问自己活在这世上到底是不是真的在为自己而活。。应为想死
的时候又放不下没工作的母亲，还有未长大的孩子。。到最后一切无法用一个字来
形容的痛苦都往肚子里吞。所以啊。。。偶尔会想要自己。。生个重病而过世。至
少还可以找到借口死。是病死的吗，谁都无法控制的。你说对吗?
有时候我也会想我是不是应该孤独一生，不要再带给人痛苦呢?应为好像跟我在一起
的人都会心碎或是为我而烦。。到最后都会闹得很不开心。
我真的好像是一个罪人。
我的人生一路走来怎么会那么艰苦，那么难熬。
如果时间能够倒转，我会是现在的我吗? 我会遇见他吗? 我会怎样过我的生活呢?
如果时间能够停留，我真的会永远快乐吗?
遇见我，你快乐吗?
或者没认识我的话你会比较快乐?
在我刚提到说泪好像都干了，我却打到这里。。掉泪了。。
posted by Jocelyn @ 4:21 AM
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Sunday, November 15, 2009
a great weekend.
this weekend pass by so smoothly and fast.. it's a great one.
turkey bacon came over and can u imagine myself, my daughter and turkey bacon are playing restaurant city together in my house? LOL!! yeah, he brought his laptop over, and the three of us played together the whole afternoon.
well, for the past 2 weeks, i've been making alot of ...
THIS...
yes, it's paper cranes!
and i filled them up into a ...
COW !! :D
Hahahaha ! cute not? don't noe lah, personally i like the cow cos i like its blur innocent face. made this for turkey bacon as we've been together for 1yr already. :)
Oh, do u still remember reading one of my post tat i actually bought a Chu Qian Yi Ding dustbin?? I've bought one Ice Cream Tub dustbin for him too. :p
Actually, nothing really to blog about other than my daily stuffs.. didn't have much on my mind to do a proper long nice entry.. So, if there's anyone of u who pops by my blog, do pardon me a little. Haha!!
Earlier on, i came out from the bathroom.. and spotted my daughter..
helping my mother to draw her eye brow?? LOL
And also putting on lipstick for her..
my mum commented, "我的小化妆师。" Hahahahaha!!!
(it means : my little make up artiste, hahahhaa!!)
Now, i can't wait for the next weekend already!
turkey bacon came over and can u imagine myself, my daughter and turkey bacon are playing restaurant city together in my house? LOL!! yeah, he brought his laptop over, and the three of us played together the whole afternoon.
well, for the past 2 weeks, i've been making alot of ...
THIS...
yes, it's paper cranes!
and i filled them up into a ...
COW !! :D
Hahahaha ! cute not? don't noe lah, personally i like the cow cos i like its blur innocent face. made this for turkey bacon as we've been together for 1yr already. :)
Oh, do u still remember reading one of my post tat i actually bought a Chu Qian Yi Ding dustbin?? I've bought one Ice Cream Tub dustbin for him too. :p
Actually, nothing really to blog about other than my daily stuffs.. didn't have much on my mind to do a proper long nice entry.. So, if there's anyone of u who pops by my blog, do pardon me a little. Haha!!
Earlier on, i came out from the bathroom.. and spotted my daughter..
helping my mother to draw her eye brow?? LOL
And also putting on lipstick for her..
my mum commented, "我的小化妆师。" Hahahahaha!!!(it means : my little make up artiste, hahahhaa!!)
Now, i can't wait for the next weekend already!
posted by Jocelyn @ 11:59 PM
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Wednesday, November 11, 2009
CITY SQUARE MALL
Met up with turkey bacon yesterday.. missed him so so much! didn't manage to meet him as frequent already.. *sighs*
We went to City Square Mall to have dinner. That place just opened not too long ago, still got a lot of empty shops not opened yet but the new shopping mall kinda resembles IMM. I walked around like one excited little girl cos i haven't been going out for a long time.. as in window shopping.. So seeing alot of nice cute little things excites me easily. *laughs uncontrollably* and OH! Alot of nice food too! and the best part is.. alot of shops and restaurants have this.. "OPENING PROMOTION" going on.. so we took one brochure that someone gave out near the escalator and we saw one that looks rather yummy! the restaurant is located at the 2nd level..
SEE THIS?! ONE FOR ONE!!!
and the price is rather reasonable. a plate of creamy pasta with chicken cutlet like tat .. is $10.90
(and don't forget! it's ONE FOR ONE!!)
This is the NACHOS ! only $4.90 ~ when i ordered, i didn't imagine the serving to be so much.. both turkey bacon and myself thought it would only come in some small basket. it's tasty !!!
the thick and creamy mushroom soup ~
this is the chef's recommended dish..! the skin's coated with a thin BBQ taste .. YUM YUM!! CHICKEN~~ *drools*
it's really worth going u noe! taking the North East Line to Farrer Park Station and it's just one traffic light away from Mustafa Centre (the best part is.. it is only ONE station from my house! mwahahhahaha!!). Initially i still worried that this new place will be infested with a lot of indians. but apparently .. i am wrong ~ cos its filled with a lot of chinese food.. and more chinese in there :D
There are still other restaurants not opened yet.. it's huge. there's NTUC.. Popular bookshop.. Cyber Active.. Comics Connection.. Mini Toons.. erm... and alot of SHOES !!! *giggles* I think i will be bringing my little angel over to walk around a bit during the weekends.
I'm so anticipating for the weekend now! :p
We went to City Square Mall to have dinner. That place just opened not too long ago, still got a lot of empty shops not opened yet but the new shopping mall kinda resembles IMM. I walked around like one excited little girl cos i haven't been going out for a long time.. as in window shopping.. So seeing alot of nice cute little things excites me easily. *laughs uncontrollably* and OH! Alot of nice food too! and the best part is.. alot of shops and restaurants have this.. "OPENING PROMOTION" going on.. so we took one brochure that someone gave out near the escalator and we saw one that looks rather yummy! the restaurant is located at the 2nd level..
SEE THIS?! ONE FOR ONE!!!
and the price is rather reasonable. a plate of creamy pasta with chicken cutlet like tat .. is $10.90
(and don't forget! it's ONE FOR ONE!!)
This is the NACHOS ! only $4.90 ~ when i ordered, i didn't imagine the serving to be so much.. both turkey bacon and myself thought it would only come in some small basket. it's tasty !!!
the thick and creamy mushroom soup ~
this is the chef's recommended dish..! the skin's coated with a thin BBQ taste .. YUM YUM!! CHICKEN~~ *drools*
it's really worth going u noe! taking the North East Line to Farrer Park Station and it's just one traffic light away from Mustafa Centre (the best part is.. it is only ONE station from my house! mwahahhahaha!!). Initially i still worried that this new place will be infested with a lot of indians. but apparently .. i am wrong ~ cos its filled with a lot of chinese food.. and more chinese in there :D
There are still other restaurants not opened yet.. it's huge. there's NTUC.. Popular bookshop.. Cyber Active.. Comics Connection.. Mini Toons.. erm... and alot of SHOES !!! *giggles* I think i will be bringing my little angel over to walk around a bit during the weekends.
I'm so anticipating for the weekend now! :p
posted by Jocelyn @ 6:32 PM
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Saturday, November 7, 2009
Have u ... SPiNX yet?
Once again, we're back!
SPiNX - it's your Streaming Portal In Net eXperience !!
help support and tune in to us at http://www.spinxpub.org
Erm.. and if you can, help us spread the word to your friends too :D
Went out with the fellow spinxians for a little dinner gathering at Popeyes!
Nope, not the one at the airport.
it's the one at Singapore Flyers.
Turkey bacon and I, as well as Lennart reached first.. managed to find some seats that can let 9 of us sit together. The 3 of us were starving..
Look what Lennart is doing.. he's looking at the picture of the food.. and taking one empty box.. trying to imagine and visualize .. that he is eating the yummy thing. LOL!
Oh, his stomach is growling too =x
Hahahaha !!
Yeah, introducing the rest of the people who attended..
KleoZy and Mr Hachoo
The poser Keanu and his gf
another lovely couple : daPh and matthew
The joker Lennart (yes, he loves taking pictures with those sauces .. LOL!!)
lastly, it's me and clip.
Look at what we eat.. those CHICKENS!! *droools*
Guess how many pieces... 18 of them!!
You wan some? LOL!
Well, thanks KleoZy for the treat! :D
Now!
My new set of nails !
I've missed out my manicure session for one month.. so here i am.. back with a new sets of nails again! Went there on Thursday to get it done..
My fingers..
And my toes..
YES! IT'S THE PINK PRINTS!!
BOOOMZ !!!
HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!
SPiNX - it's your Streaming Portal In Net eXperience !!
help support and tune in to us at http://www.spinxpub.org
Erm.. and if you can, help us spread the word to your friends too :D
Went out with the fellow spinxians for a little dinner gathering at Popeyes!
Nope, not the one at the airport.
it's the one at Singapore Flyers.
Turkey bacon and I, as well as Lennart reached first.. managed to find some seats that can let 9 of us sit together. The 3 of us were starving..
Look what Lennart is doing.. he's looking at the picture of the food.. and taking one empty box.. trying to imagine and visualize .. that he is eating the yummy thing. LOL!
Oh, his stomach is growling too =x
Hahahaha !!
Yeah, introducing the rest of the people who attended..
KleoZy and Mr Hachoo
The poser Keanu and his gf
another lovely couple : daPh and matthew
The joker Lennart (yes, he loves taking pictures with those sauces .. LOL!!)
lastly, it's me and clip.
Look at what we eat.. those CHICKENS!! *droools*
Guess how many pieces... 18 of them!!
You wan some? LOL!
Well, thanks KleoZy for the treat! :D
Now!
My new set of nails !
I've missed out my manicure session for one month.. so here i am.. back with a new sets of nails again! Went there on Thursday to get it done..
My fingers..
And my toes..
YES! IT'S THE PINK PRINTS!!
BOOOMZ !!!
HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!
posted by Jocelyn @ 6:36 PM
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Saturday, October 31, 2009
SEX
Interesting Topic No. 1 : His three favourite positions
50% - Girls on top
30% - Doggy style
20% - Missionary
Interesting Topic No. 2 : The things he love most
42% - YOU initiating sex
20% - Trying something new
15% - Dirty talking
13% - Giving oral
10% - Being romantic
Interesting Topic No. 3 : His top FIVE turn-offs
35% - Body odour
33% - Bad breath
11% - Lack of enthusiasm
11% - Hairy legs
10% - Unwillingness to try anything new
Interesting Topic No. 4 : Some random facts you might wanna know
a) Research shows that a combination of lavender and pumpkin pie is the most arousing scent for men.
b) Over the course of his lifetime, a male can ejaculate about 1.5 litres of semen
c) The average speed of ejaculation is 45km/h.
Interesting Topic No. 5 : What men REALLY think of our bodies (results below are based on a poll being answered by 100 men on the streets)
a) Your Hair
70% - absolutely can't resist long silky hair
25% - say short and spunky is the way to go
5% - don't care as long as the hair is up there and not at the pits (LOL!!!)
b) Your Make-up
45% - say a clean, nude look is the way to the man's heart
35% - like a dolled-up face. It makes them look better.
20% - can't stand the make up. If a face is good, why cover it up?
c) Your Skin
80% - think freckles make you look girlish
10% - think freckles are irresistibly cute
10% - don't care at all
d) You Lips
63% - say Angelina Jolie lips are a huge turn-on.
30% - say full lips make a girl look intimidating.
7% - are just happy to have any set of puckers to kiss.
e) Your Boobs
40% - like big boobs.
40% - believe good things come in small packages.
20% - just like any boobs.
f) Your Abs
42% - love it but they say sculpted abs are so rare, it's not important anymore
22% - love a six pack
20% - think a flat tummy is good enough but a set of six pack will be a plus
8% - would rather date someone with a normal body
g) Your Butt
72% - of men admit they're ass-men
20% - are sad to admit they're a cliche. They're the boob-men
8% - say butts are not the main draw, they prefer long slender legs
h) Your Height
65% - of guys would rather you not be taller than them. They admit it's an ego thing.
35% - love a girl who's taller. They too know it's an ego thing -- it makes them feel like they are going out with a model.
i) Your Legs
83% - find leg hair is a big NO NO!!
17% - actually don't mind it. As long it doesn't feel like they are touching a guy friends' leg.
j) Your Grooming Down There
56% - like a sexy landing strip
20% - actually find the Brazilian waxing a turn-off. Apparently, it makes them feel like a pervert.
14% - like it totally bare
10% - like it natural
k) Your Tan
43% - like a healthy sun-kissed look
42% - hate spray-on tans. They find it freaky.
15% - couldn't care either way
l) Your Feet
60% - agree having calloused feet is a major turn-off
30% - actually notice when you get a pedicure
10% - couldn't be bothered. They feel that ... "It's just the feet, who looks at them?"
Yes, it's that three letter word that will catch almost anyone's attention.
SEX
Actually i happen to flip through and read something interesting regarding or somewhat related to the mentioned title's topic found in a magazine which is being left untouched on top of a drawer at home.. And this topic is more for women's knowledge. haha!! It's just some "smart reports" from CLEO Magazine.. I just happen to find it interesting and so i tot i wanna share it with my readers too.
SEX
Actually i happen to flip through and read something interesting regarding or somewhat related to the mentioned title's topic found in a magazine which is being left untouched on top of a drawer at home.. And this topic is more for women's knowledge. haha!! It's just some "smart reports" from CLEO Magazine.. I just happen to find it interesting and so i tot i wanna share it with my readers too.
Interesting Topic No. 1 : His three favourite positions
50% - Girls on top
30% - Doggy style
20% - Missionary
Interesting Topic No. 2 : The things he love most
42% - YOU initiating sex
20% - Trying something new
15% - Dirty talking
13% - Giving oral
10% - Being romantic
Interesting Topic No. 3 : His top FIVE turn-offs
35% - Body odour
33% - Bad breath
11% - Lack of enthusiasm
11% - Hairy legs
10% - Unwillingness to try anything new
Interesting Topic No. 4 : Some random facts you might wanna know
a) Research shows that a combination of lavender and pumpkin pie is the most arousing scent for men.
b) Over the course of his lifetime, a male can ejaculate about 1.5 litres of semen
c) The average speed of ejaculation is 45km/h.
Interesting Topic No. 5 : What men REALLY think of our bodies (results below are based on a poll being answered by 100 men on the streets)
a) Your Hair
70% - absolutely can't resist long silky hair
25% - say short and spunky is the way to go
5% - don't care as long as the hair is up there and not at the pits (LOL!!!)
b) Your Make-up
45% - say a clean, nude look is the way to the man's heart
35% - like a dolled-up face. It makes them look better.
20% - can't stand the make up. If a face is good, why cover it up?
c) Your Skin
80% - think freckles make you look girlish
10% - think freckles are irresistibly cute
10% - don't care at all
d) You Lips
63% - say Angelina Jolie lips are a huge turn-on.
30% - say full lips make a girl look intimidating.
7% - are just happy to have any set of puckers to kiss.
e) Your Boobs
40% - like big boobs.
40% - believe good things come in small packages.
20% - just like any boobs.
f) Your Abs
42% - love it but they say sculpted abs are so rare, it's not important anymore
22% - love a six pack
20% - think a flat tummy is good enough but a set of six pack will be a plus
8% - would rather date someone with a normal body
g) Your Butt
72% - of men admit they're ass-men
20% - are sad to admit they're a cliche. They're the boob-men
8% - say butts are not the main draw, they prefer long slender legs
h) Your Height
65% - of guys would rather you not be taller than them. They admit it's an ego thing.
35% - love a girl who's taller. They too know it's an ego thing -- it makes them feel like they are going out with a model.
i) Your Legs
83% - find leg hair is a big NO NO!!
17% - actually don't mind it. As long it doesn't feel like they are touching a guy friends' leg.
j) Your Grooming Down There
56% - like a sexy landing strip
20% - actually find the Brazilian waxing a turn-off. Apparently, it makes them feel like a pervert.
14% - like it totally bare
10% - like it natural
k) Your Tan
43% - like a healthy sun-kissed look
42% - hate spray-on tans. They find it freaky.
15% - couldn't care either way
l) Your Feet
60% - agree having calloused feet is a major turn-off
30% - actually notice when you get a pedicure
10% - couldn't be bothered. They feel that ... "It's just the feet, who looks at them?"
Now... as you can see from the above statistics, men are not as superficial as they make themselves out to be. At the end of the day, most of them are with you because they love you for who you are. The ones who want you to change how you look like, personally.. i feel they are not worth your time.
MOVING ON....
It's a rainy and cooling day at my area and i believe most parts of Singapore is wet now. Finally it's coming to almost the end of the year and bringing the hot weather away..
turkey bacon came over after school and i prepared some pasta for the whole family. didn't really like what i've made today.. oh well, it's edible but not up to my satisfaction yet. *sighs*
IT'S OK! I WILL IMPROVE ON IT!
very very soon.. my little girl will be in primary 5 next year.. am kinda worried that she might not be able to cope. both her english and chinese subject are still ok, and i must say she excel in chinese more.. it is maths and science that is pulling down her grades.
i hope she will be able to concentrate and study harder than anyone else in class so that she will be able to catch up with the rest of her classmates.
MOVING ON....
It's a rainy and cooling day at my area and i believe most parts of Singapore is wet now. Finally it's coming to almost the end of the year and bringing the hot weather away..
turkey bacon came over after school and i prepared some pasta for the whole family. didn't really like what i've made today.. oh well, it's edible but not up to my satisfaction yet. *sighs*
IT'S OK! I WILL IMPROVE ON IT!
very very soon.. my little girl will be in primary 5 next year.. am kinda worried that she might not be able to cope. both her english and chinese subject are still ok, and i must say she excel in chinese more.. it is maths and science that is pulling down her grades.
i hope she will be able to concentrate and study harder than anyone else in class so that she will be able to catch up with the rest of her classmates.
posted by Jocelyn @ 2:42 AM
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Monday, October 26, 2009
REASONS WHY YOU'RE SEPERATED FROM SOMEONE YOU LOVE
Case 1 : Distance
So, what kinda distance? it might be one staying in Jurong.. and one staying in Pasir Ris.. Both are at each ends of Singapore. But this is still rather acceptable if you all do not mind the travelling time via public transports. Taking a cab will be more expensive but who cares if you are rich? Have you ever thought of those people who are a long distance relationship? There are a few around.. And i must say a long distance relationship is very very tough and hard to maintain. And it will all depend on how mature that person is to maintain it.
I've stumbled onto a blog one day.. *Valerie is in Singapore and her love *Brandon is in the states. Yeap, a chinese and one ang mo. I really envy them when i read her posts about how the distance kept them apart for so long.. how the time difference between the 2 countries that made Valerie stayed up for late nights just to see him online to talk to him.. and how strong they are still hanging on to this relationship. They web cam every night.. This is the only way to see each other. They send each other parcels cos this is the only way they can exchange gifts. Valerie can only bake a cake by herself and lit candles to celebrate Brandon's birthday in front of the web cam. She even calculated the number of days to send the parcel to Brandon so that he can recieve it on his birthday itself to give him a surprise. Yes, it is a very sweet moment of the 2 of them and deep down my heart.. i really feel happy for them.. for both of them are still standing strong despite the time difference and distance between them.
So if you're still complaining Jurong and Pasir Ris are very far, think about this. You really should not complain in future already.
Case 2 : Financially
Well, speaking of which.. this is sometimes a pain when u have not enough money to go out for a date with your partner. And this happens mostly among students..
I've got friends complaining to me all the time .. "Feel like going out for a movie.. But sian lah! No money~" or things like that. Do you get them too? Sad but true, i'm experiencing this myself now too. Hahaha!
Case 3 : Family
This is one case scenario which i personally is very very sensitive about. Cos i've faced them for a few times already.
So take it for example.. Hmm.. Your relationship with your love one just started.. after a while.. both of you decided that maybe it's time that you introduce yourself to the family members already. So what happens when the parents doesn't have any good impression about you? I believe the most common happened problem would be like .. feeling pressured on how to make them like you.. how to make them accept you.. how to make them give both of you thier blessings and stuffs like that.
Let me share with you a similar "Family" situation that happened at my own home. I do not know if you've read one of my post on How I Hate My Brother's GF ?? Yeah, both my mum and myself didn't like the girl that my brother brought home. I really don't know what's up with my brother to fall for a girl like her.. and i really do not know what's up in the girl's mind!! She really do not have any basic manners as to greet people at home... or at least a nod on the head and a smile on the face? The more i see her the more i dislike her.. So whenever my brother brought her home, my mum will call me and tell me to take my own dinner outside as she decided not to cook due to the hateful girl is at our house.. my mum commented, "Jocelyn, you take ur meal outside. Ur brother brought tat stupid girl home. I don't want to cook. Waste my time cooking and let her eat my food." Hahahahaha !! My mum's really cute isn't it?
THANK GOD my brother broke off with her already after a few months. If not i really can't imagine what will happen if she really becomes my sister in law.
So does anyone of you have a common hater at home that you wanna share? Haha!!
Case 4 : Age Gap
Ok! AGE! many people always say that age isn't a problem which i personally agree. I believe 70% of this society will always agree to couples to be made up of an older guy and a younger lady. Meaning the guy is always a few years senior than the lady.. and the remaining 30% of the society will accept a couple being made up of a elder lady and a younger man. I have quite a number of female friends having a younger boyfriend.. but it's only a few years gap ranging from 1-5 years. And I'm having a younger boyfriend myself. So yeah.. :)
So... age gap.. age gap.. Hmmm.... many of them are really base on true love.. but a few couples that i've come across at my previous work place are mostly matchmaked or old man marrying a foreign young wife. Base on what i experience or should i say come across in real life.. I've witness couples with major age gaps like the man being 10-20years older than the lady... or the lady being at least 10years older than her boyfriend.. these people will always have to bear with what outsiders say about them. What do i mean by that? Well.. Let me tell u a real case that happened back at work..
A man and a lady walked in to check for the prices to go to Bangkok. So my first impression of them was, "Oh.. must be father and daughter buying a package to bring the whole family to go for a holiday." But then, no. they only bought a package for TWO. yeap, just the two of them.. so my thought was, "hmm.. perhaps the mum is busy working so the father brought the daughter for a holiday." .. i realise my thought was not right when i asked for both thier names so that i can reserve the flight tickets and do the hotel bookings for them, cos it turned out to be they are having different surnames and the girl said, "I want to request for QUEEN SIZE BED! Must confirm that for me!" So my expression changed a bit and replied, "I can help you do a request, but all request are subject to availability base on first come first serve basis. But u can do a request again when u reach the hotel." WAH! she raised her voice and said, "I DON'T CARE!! How u expect the both of us to go there and not able to sleep together?!!" -______-
Asked for both of thier contact numbers so that i will contact them once thier tickets are ready for collection and all the more i believe they are a couple (instead of the initial thought of them being father and daughter) cos they are hold couple numbers. Trust me not, i almost fainted when i see both thier passports' date of birth.. WHY?? cos the girl is 2 years younger than me.. (believe it or not, she looks older than me.) and the guy is older than my mum. GOSH!!!
Ok, back to topic. I was saying a couple with major age gaps will have to bear with how outsiders look at them. And the above mentioned is one of the real life scenario which i did mention how i feel about them. And i believe such relationships will work out better if they are mentally prepared for all the unnecessary stares and critics by other people. And lastly, will the parents of the younger one be able to accept the fact that the child is seeing a partner that is so much older than thier child?? Some even lost a lot of friends cos the friends are not able to accept them being together due to the age gap. oh well, like the saying always go.. "Shit happens"
So if anyone of you reading is in this situation, care to share with me how you handle your relationship and answer your parents or towards your friends?
Case 5 : Divorced and with a child
This one really speaks a lot about me. Cos i am one. I'm divorced and i'm with kids. I always will feel inferior.. And i will always look at the negative side of things. I will always worried that the parents will not accept me for who i am or accept my kids. Sometimes, it's really very tough to let the parents of your partner to accept the fact that you had a kid. You will need to crack your head open to think of the best time to break the news to them. You will even hear nasty comments like "Buy one free one" kinda thing. Worst case scenarios will be the one with a kid, still do not dare to tell the man she love that she has a kid cos he might not be able to accept it and then let go of his hand and fade away silently by herself.
Even though some parents verbally say that they don't mind your kids and are willing to treat them like thier own grand children.. U've yet to meet some just like my previous in laws. Verbally they said they do not mind at all.. But u can see thier true colors once you bore them a grand child of thier own. U can tell which child they will treat better and which will not. It is cos of this that i left that ugly family and bring my daughter away with me. Thier nasty words towards my poor little girl are still deeply imprinted in my mind. you will know and understand what sorta words they used on my daughter if you read my previous post HERE.
Do you have a story to share with me on how you cope with a kid and face the parents of you partner??
Case 6 : Being A Third Party
To put it bluntly.. Being a Mistress or vice versa. a guy or a girl two timed openly but kept the "real" gf or bf in the dark.
a real case scenario here.. *Andy knew *Janice was attached.. But both of them had likings for each other.. So they grew to love each other even more after they got into an "underground" relationship. Andy has to hide in the dark and not able to reveal his status to light not say openly to his own friends. Janice then slowly realise that being together with her real boyfriend of 3 years starts to be like a responsibilty and habit to her instead of love. This is a case which seperates Andy and Janice away from being together.. But now.. i felt happy for them cos Janice finally made a clear decision towards her boyfriend that they should end this as she is in love with another.. that is Andy. The boyfriend finally let go of her.. and wish them happiness now.
Who never two timed before? Who been through such situations before? How did it ended this way? Did it turn out well and bloom in the end? Tell me about it :)
Actually, there are many reasons why u're being kept away from someone you love.. or maybe you're in love but unable to see each other.. and many other possible factors..
I've seen some of them myself.. be it is my friends real life story or me encountering it personally..
Collected some materials and decided to blog about it and perhaps if you do have some experience on this kinda situation... perhaps you would wanna leave a comment in this entry and share them with me.
Let me state some scenarios here..
(*Names in scenarios are changed to protect thier real identity.)
I've seen some of them myself.. be it is my friends real life story or me encountering it personally..
Collected some materials and decided to blog about it and perhaps if you do have some experience on this kinda situation... perhaps you would wanna leave a comment in this entry and share them with me.
Let me state some scenarios here..
(*Names in scenarios are changed to protect thier real identity.)
Case 1 : Distance
So, what kinda distance? it might be one staying in Jurong.. and one staying in Pasir Ris.. Both are at each ends of Singapore. But this is still rather acceptable if you all do not mind the travelling time via public transports. Taking a cab will be more expensive but who cares if you are rich? Have you ever thought of those people who are a long distance relationship? There are a few around.. And i must say a long distance relationship is very very tough and hard to maintain. And it will all depend on how mature that person is to maintain it.
I've stumbled onto a blog one day.. *Valerie is in Singapore and her love *Brandon is in the states. Yeap, a chinese and one ang mo. I really envy them when i read her posts about how the distance kept them apart for so long.. how the time difference between the 2 countries that made Valerie stayed up for late nights just to see him online to talk to him.. and how strong they are still hanging on to this relationship. They web cam every night.. This is the only way to see each other. They send each other parcels cos this is the only way they can exchange gifts. Valerie can only bake a cake by herself and lit candles to celebrate Brandon's birthday in front of the web cam. She even calculated the number of days to send the parcel to Brandon so that he can recieve it on his birthday itself to give him a surprise. Yes, it is a very sweet moment of the 2 of them and deep down my heart.. i really feel happy for them.. for both of them are still standing strong despite the time difference and distance between them.
So if you're still complaining Jurong and Pasir Ris are very far, think about this. You really should not complain in future already.
Case 2 : Financially
Well, speaking of which.. this is sometimes a pain when u have not enough money to go out for a date with your partner. And this happens mostly among students..
I've got friends complaining to me all the time .. "Feel like going out for a movie.. But sian lah! No money~" or things like that. Do you get them too? Sad but true, i'm experiencing this myself now too. Hahaha!
Case 3 : Family
This is one case scenario which i personally is very very sensitive about. Cos i've faced them for a few times already.
So take it for example.. Hmm.. Your relationship with your love one just started.. after a while.. both of you decided that maybe it's time that you introduce yourself to the family members already. So what happens when the parents doesn't have any good impression about you? I believe the most common happened problem would be like .. feeling pressured on how to make them like you.. how to make them accept you.. how to make them give both of you thier blessings and stuffs like that.
Let me share with you a similar "Family" situation that happened at my own home. I do not know if you've read one of my post on How I Hate My Brother's GF ?? Yeah, both my mum and myself didn't like the girl that my brother brought home. I really don't know what's up with my brother to fall for a girl like her.. and i really do not know what's up in the girl's mind!! She really do not have any basic manners as to greet people at home... or at least a nod on the head and a smile on the face? The more i see her the more i dislike her.. So whenever my brother brought her home, my mum will call me and tell me to take my own dinner outside as she decided not to cook due to the hateful girl is at our house.. my mum commented, "Jocelyn, you take ur meal outside. Ur brother brought tat stupid girl home. I don't want to cook. Waste my time cooking and let her eat my food." Hahahahaha !! My mum's really cute isn't it?
THANK GOD my brother broke off with her already after a few months. If not i really can't imagine what will happen if she really becomes my sister in law.
So does anyone of you have a common hater at home that you wanna share? Haha!!
Case 4 : Age Gap
Ok! AGE! many people always say that age isn't a problem which i personally agree. I believe 70% of this society will always agree to couples to be made up of an older guy and a younger lady. Meaning the guy is always a few years senior than the lady.. and the remaining 30% of the society will accept a couple being made up of a elder lady and a younger man. I have quite a number of female friends having a younger boyfriend.. but it's only a few years gap ranging from 1-5 years. And I'm having a younger boyfriend myself. So yeah.. :)
So... age gap.. age gap.. Hmmm.... many of them are really base on true love.. but a few couples that i've come across at my previous work place are mostly matchmaked or old man marrying a foreign young wife. Base on what i experience or should i say come across in real life.. I've witness couples with major age gaps like the man being 10-20years older than the lady... or the lady being at least 10years older than her boyfriend.. these people will always have to bear with what outsiders say about them. What do i mean by that? Well.. Let me tell u a real case that happened back at work..
A man and a lady walked in to check for the prices to go to Bangkok. So my first impression of them was, "Oh.. must be father and daughter buying a package to bring the whole family to go for a holiday." But then, no. they only bought a package for TWO. yeap, just the two of them.. so my thought was, "hmm.. perhaps the mum is busy working so the father brought the daughter for a holiday." .. i realise my thought was not right when i asked for both thier names so that i can reserve the flight tickets and do the hotel bookings for them, cos it turned out to be they are having different surnames and the girl said, "I want to request for QUEEN SIZE BED! Must confirm that for me!" So my expression changed a bit and replied, "I can help you do a request, but all request are subject to availability base on first come first serve basis. But u can do a request again when u reach the hotel." WAH! she raised her voice and said, "I DON'T CARE!! How u expect the both of us to go there and not able to sleep together?!!" -______-
Asked for both of thier contact numbers so that i will contact them once thier tickets are ready for collection and all the more i believe they are a couple (instead of the initial thought of them being father and daughter) cos they are hold couple numbers. Trust me not, i almost fainted when i see both thier passports' date of birth.. WHY?? cos the girl is 2 years younger than me.. (believe it or not, she looks older than me.) and the guy is older than my mum. GOSH!!!
Ok, back to topic. I was saying a couple with major age gaps will have to bear with how outsiders look at them. And the above mentioned is one of the real life scenario which i did mention how i feel about them. And i believe such relationships will work out better if they are mentally prepared for all the unnecessary stares and critics by other people. And lastly, will the parents of the younger one be able to accept the fact that the child is seeing a partner that is so much older than thier child?? Some even lost a lot of friends cos the friends are not able to accept them being together due to the age gap. oh well, like the saying always go.. "Shit happens"
So if anyone of you reading is in this situation, care to share with me how you handle your relationship and answer your parents or towards your friends?
Case 5 : Divorced and with a child
This one really speaks a lot about me. Cos i am one. I'm divorced and i'm with kids. I always will feel inferior.. And i will always look at the negative side of things. I will always worried that the parents will not accept me for who i am or accept my kids. Sometimes, it's really very tough to let the parents of your partner to accept the fact that you had a kid. You will need to crack your head open to think of the best time to break the news to them. You will even hear nasty comments like "Buy one free one" kinda thing. Worst case scenarios will be the one with a kid, still do not dare to tell the man she love that she has a kid cos he might not be able to accept it and then let go of his hand and fade away silently by herself.
Even though some parents verbally say that they don't mind your kids and are willing to treat them like thier own grand children.. U've yet to meet some just like my previous in laws. Verbally they said they do not mind at all.. But u can see thier true colors once you bore them a grand child of thier own. U can tell which child they will treat better and which will not. It is cos of this that i left that ugly family and bring my daughter away with me. Thier nasty words towards my poor little girl are still deeply imprinted in my mind. you will know and understand what sorta words they used on my daughter if you read my previous post HERE.
Do you have a story to share with me on how you cope with a kid and face the parents of you partner??
Case 6 : Being A Third Party
To put it bluntly.. Being a Mistress or vice versa. a guy or a girl two timed openly but kept the "real" gf or bf in the dark.
a real case scenario here.. *Andy knew *Janice was attached.. But both of them had likings for each other.. So they grew to love each other even more after they got into an "underground" relationship. Andy has to hide in the dark and not able to reveal his status to light not say openly to his own friends. Janice then slowly realise that being together with her real boyfriend of 3 years starts to be like a responsibilty and habit to her instead of love. This is a case which seperates Andy and Janice away from being together.. But now.. i felt happy for them cos Janice finally made a clear decision towards her boyfriend that they should end this as she is in love with another.. that is Andy. The boyfriend finally let go of her.. and wish them happiness now.
Who never two timed before? Who been through such situations before? How did it ended this way? Did it turn out well and bloom in the end? Tell me about it :)
MOVING ON...
For me, when we can't meet each other .. I will hug my favourite plush toy that turkey bacon bought for me. what is tat?? it's EEYORE!!
Yeap, this is the first gift he bought for me. i will always hug it to sleep when i am alone.. cos somehow, i feel.. this is the closest thing i can do to make it feels like he is just by my side, watching me sleep and taking care of me.. :)
Eeyore's cute isn't it? Tee hee hee!
posted by Jocelyn @ 1:25 PM
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